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According to Mac Engal, (Fort Worth Star - Telegram, 2-10-12) Hamilton's relapse was probably very costly, as in millions of dollars.  Like Whitney Houston's relapses, the cost is grave.  It was reported (MSN.com, 2-12-12) that her problems with addiction caused grave problems for her singing voice.  Like Amy winehouse's death due to addiction, the cost is tremendous.  What we need to look at is not only the tragedy of these tremendously God-given talents, but the tragedy they leave behind with the children, the distraught parents, the loved ones and the inevitable role-modeling of a self-consumed lifestyle.  Al,l of these people went to rehab but did not remain sober and/or clean.  We can learn from them what not to do only is we find out what they did not do.  The point is that, while millions of dollars and a singing voice were affected, what about the next generation that cannot learn from their tragedys.

Our kids need to know that these people are not bad people or fun-loving people like Charlie Sheen but brain-affected people who have used and been deeply affected by drugs and/or alcohol.  They have the misfortune of having a death sentence that is both biological and self-imposed but also reversible, very treatable, if help is sought.

If we report the tragedy accurately, our future generations can learn how unfortunate these people are and, perhaps, how to avoid this ego-driven disease.  These deaths, like the similar tragic deaths we see in recovery communitys, can be used to teach us what not to do.  Father Martin (1982), one of our pioneers in the field of addiction, remarked that no alcoholic need die in vain.  He was suggesting that these tragic deaths can teach us.  They can be valuable if we learn from them.  Let's stop covering up the tragedy and expose the truth.  It will indeed 'set us free', free to learn from the truth, no matter how sad and tragic it may be.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete

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Newest results from a national survey suggest that amphetamine use is down but marijuana use is up.  This 'use' has been changing product lines for decades but the drug/alcohol abuse is still pandemic.  What's the difference if the drug is pot and bad judgements are made on a global level and cancerous lungs and esphoghial problems are found or if people are killing self and others because of amphetamine abuse?  It still destruction.  Isn't it time we lived in a little more reality-based joy of living?  Isn't this more Godly?

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

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Dry drunk synedrome is when you blame another instantaneously before examining the situation.  This defense preceeds thinking logically or just thinking at all.  Next comes negative thinking and overconfidence.  Resentments are not processed and stresses are not managed well.

The solution is an honest appraisal of one's state of mind and spirit, followed by right action to remedy the problem.  Sometimes this involves making amends or seeing your part in the problem.  Other times, it involves return to prayer.  If you have a spiritual advisor and a program, this dilemma is not very difficult to arrest.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

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We have enough trouble being honest when we treat out addiction.  Without a "Program" we return to blaming others.

 

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

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Unmanageable can mean three or four small (?) problems that add up to one major problem.  Not fixing the car and being late for work and spending too much and beinf ashamed for being self-indulgent can equal one DUI or a divorce or a job loss.

Love and peace,

Docpete, the imperfect therapist


Who knows what damage is done by the effects of THC being dispersed in the synapses of the brain?  We do know that it does interfere with the messages sent from neurotransmitter to neurotransmitter.  Thinking is definitely affected.  Combine this with the inability to process feelings and we get an emoter who is numb much of the time and gets number to become anesthetized from the feelings that have built.  There is really no accurate way to measure feelings.  Therefore, we cannot account for the emotional state of a pot addict accurately. 

However, I do know that the apathy and lack of clarity as well as the inability to process anger, hurt, guilt and fear explains a state whereas work is not valued and the contribution to society is not an issue.  This may explain the person who thinks that the world owes him a living and feels no guilt and also righteously defends his position to the max with no concern for others or society.  A  person in this state with power is dangerous.

Love and peace,

Docpete, the imperfect therapist

No drugs or alcohol today.  OK?


Sometimes an overdose is the result of not knowing the effects of a drug or medication, especially with today's pain meds such as oxycodone and morphine and so forth.  Sometimes it is the result of someone not knowing when they've taken what and when.  If a person has plans for the future or little intent or no history of prior suicide attempts, it is difficult to say that this was other than an accident. 

Be careful when soemone overdoses.  Pray for them and be there for the family. 

Love and peace,

Docpete, the imperfect therapist


This is the Pope's Christmas message.  Help those who are barely surviving.  He mentioned Zimbabwe where the economic crisis hits hardest.  He cautioned against greed taking a 'front seat' in our world and how only God's grace could turn us from evil to good.  What a powerful message! I think this is what Bill and Bob were doing also.  And we that follow, we must do our part.  We have a major role in this "correction".

God bless you with a safe and joyful Christmas.

Love and peace,

Docpete, the imperfect therapist


Living with an alcoholic always leads to a low-grade depression because the co=alcoholic is aiding and abetting a suicide.

Love and peace,

Docpete


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