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"Dr. Butkins played an integral part in my recovery from alcoholism and drug addiction. He provided me with knowledge about the disease of addiction and taught me how to overcome the triggers that would lead me to go out and use or drink. Dr. Butkins is a very knowledgeable, respectable, and professional counselor. He truly cares for his clients and you can tell from the minute you first meet him that he is a man who has genuine concern for the addict and is willing to do what it takes to help you. I am forever grateful to Dr. Butkins for teaching and giving me the tools necessary to maintain my recovery from alcohol and substance abuse." John - Orlando, FL January 2009

“I met Dr. Butkins when I went to a counseling session with my alcoholic husband about 2.5 years ago. He is a highly skilled professional and is very knowledgeable on the disease of alcoholism and its affect upon the families of alcoholics. When we met, I was sick with worry and fear, angry, and unhappy. Living each day in fear of what awful thing would happen next, both my mental and physical health were beginning to suffer. When my husband went off to a rehabilitation center, I continued to see Dr. Butkins. As he challenged my thinking and attitudes and encouraged me to recognize and deal with my feelings, my mind began to open and allow me to look at life situations and the disease of alcoholism in ways that would never have occurred to me on my own. He sent me to Al-Anon where I found other people affected by a loved one’s alcoholism that were working the 12 Steps and willing to help me in my recovery. Today, there is less worry and fear in my life and more serenity. I know that Dr. Butkins’ skill, wisdom, and compassion guided me to this better way of living. I will be forever grateful.” Karen, Lake Mary, Florida

"Dr. Pete probably saved my life 7 months ago when I came to him in October, 2005. He has a great talent in evaluating problems and making you aware of them. He has helped me turn my life around and helped me see things about myself that I have been able to work on; he also helped me help others. It is the best money I have spent in many years. Thank you for being there for me." Richard A. March, 2006

"Dr. Butkins has been treating me since I was in middle school; later on at 19, (he helped me again) I had to see someone I felt comfortable with. He talks to me like a friend, not a doctor. I choose him over any other (counselor) because I look forward to seeing him; he’s just like one of my own friends. He’s very real, but not in your face;he doesn’t sugarcoat, but he’s very understanding and kind. He will help you make progress through anything and leave you feeling better than when you came in."
Jerry K. April 2006

"Dr. Butkins is the best thing that ever happened to me. I would have been dead a long time ago if it were not for him. I drank way too much and wanted to die. He has brought me through a lot; because of him I can handle anything and I love myself today." Janie D. April, 2006

"Dr. Peter Butkins has provided much needed support and direction during emotional turmoil in my life."
Ken H. - Longwood, FL April, 2006

"Dr. Butkins is an amazing guy. He has helped me so very much. When I first came to him I was ready to give up on life. With his help and guidance I pulled myself up. I’m now accepting a full paid scholarship to Stetson. Dr. Butkins saved my life. Thanks for everything." Ann A. - Orlando, FL April, 2006

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This drug/alcohol problem is worsening.

Posted by: drbutkins in symptoms of drug addiction, symptoms of alcoholism, marijuana, drug addiction, alcoholism treatment, addiction recovery on Sep 12, 2011

Newest results from a national survey suggest that amphetamine use is down but marijuana use is up. This 'use' has been changing product lines for decades but the drug/alcohol abuse is still pandemic. What's the difference if the drug is pot and bad judgements are made on a global level and cancerous lungs and esphoghial problems are found or if people are killing self and others because of amphetamine abuse? It still destruction. Isn't it time we lived in a little more reality-based joy of living? Isn't this more Godly?

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

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Protect your Program! Don't be a "dry drunk".

Posted by: drbutkins in symptoms of drug addiction, symptoms of alcoholism, self actualization, alcoholism treatment, alcoholism signs, addiction recovery, 12 step program on Jun 27, 2011

Dry drunk synedrome is when you blame another instantaneously before examining the situation. This defense preceeds thinking logically or just thinking at all. Next comes negative thinking and overconfidence. Resentments are not processed and stresses are not managed well.

The solution is an honest appraisal of one's state of mind and spirit, followed by right action to remedy the problem. Sometimes this involves making amends or seeing your part in the problem. Other times, it involves return to prayer. If you have a spiritual advisor and a program, this dilemma is not very difficult to arrest.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

P.S. If you are interested in additional counseling by email or
telephone log onto www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com.

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Untreated addiction and resentments.

Posted by: drbutkins in symptoms of drug addiction, symptoms of alcoholism, alcoholism treatment, addiction recovery, 12 step program on May 16, 2011

We have enough trouble being honest when we treat out addiction. Without a "Program" we return to blaming others.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

If you are interested in additional counseling by email or telephone

log onto http://www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com/

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Moral model of addiction

Posted by: drbutkins in symptoms of alcoholism, signs of drug addiction, alcoholism treatment, addiction recovery on May 08, 2011

Many religious people develop addiction to drugs and alcohol. Moral problems are caused by addiction. All problems are possible when addiction takes over.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

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log onto http://www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com/

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History repeats itself.

Posted by: drbutkins in symptoms of alcoholism, alcoholism treatment, addiction recovery on Dec 24, 2010

Prevent this.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

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log onto http://www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com/

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Relapse.

Posted by: drbutkins in symptoms of alcoholism, drug addiction treatment, drug addiction recovery, alcoholism treatment on Aug 19, 2010

The first thoughts of defiance, whether they are of not going to a meeting or not praying or not returning another's call are fought. The next time the thoughts come there is a lesser battle. If not "countered" with right action, there is no more fight.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

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Disguised Arrogance

Posted by: drbutkins in symptoms of alcoholism, drug addiction recovery, denial, addiction recovery on Aug 25, 2009

Any attempt to argue or defy someone who is trying to help you in sobriety is arrogant.

Love and peace,

Docpete, the imperfect therapist

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Unmanageable?

Posted by: drbutkins in symptoms of drug addiction, symptoms of alcoholism, honesty, denial on May 04, 2009

Unmanageable can mean three or four small (?) problems that add up to one major problem. Not fixing the car and being late for work and spending too much and beinf ashamed for being self-indulgent can equal one DUI or a divorce or a job loss.

Love and peace,

Docpete, the imperfect therapist

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Help the Needy

Posted by: drbutkins in symptoms of drug addiction, symptoms of alcoholism, sobriety, self actualization, recovery on Dec 25, 2008

This is the Pope's Christmas message. Help those who are barely surviving. He mentioned Zimbabwe where the economic crisis hits hardest. He cautioned against greed taking a 'front seat' in our world and how only God's grace could turn us from evil to good. What a powerful message! I think this is what Bill and Bob were doing also. And we that follow, we must do our part. We have a major role in this "correction".

God bless you with a safe and joyful Christmas.

Love and peace,

Docpete, the imperfect therapist

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Relapse and parental role/type

Posted by: drbutkins in teen drug addiction, symptoms of alcoholism, signs of drug addiction, denial, alcohol recovery, addiction recovery on Nov 22, 2008

An old Tranactional Analysis [I'm OK, you're OK, {Harris (1969), Berne, 1970}] model spoke of three different positions/roles we can take and operate from. One is PARENT. Now the addict/alcoholic, when overconfident perhaps when s/he is not hungover or throwing up or in jail or an institution, or driving drunk or in some other sad situation, can appear to be overconfident. This can be noticed by seeing his or her "know-it-all" attitude. You will see him or her lecturing, teaching, being rigid and needing to be right, be forceful and aggressive re: any subject or simply dominating the conversation. All of these are self-centered ways to control and avoid the awareness of his or her demise.

When observed, these can be accepted and changed. Honesty is necessary to become aware and accept the PARENT (in charge) role.

Parenting is better left for sober people. The alcoholic/addict overconfidentand teacher mode is not honest nor is it effective. Get sober first and then learn to turn the humiliation to humility. The energy saved can be used to be useful and love God and others.

Love and peace,

Docpete, the imperfect therapist

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