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"Dr. Butkins played an integral part in my recovery from alcoholism and drug addiction. He provided me with knowledge about the disease of addiction and taught me how to overcome the triggers that would lead me to go out and use or drink. Dr. Butkins is a very knowledgeable, respectable, and professional counselor. He truly cares for his clients and you can tell from the minute you first meet him that he is a man who has genuine concern for the addict and is willing to do what it takes to help you. I am forever grateful to Dr. Butkins for teaching and giving me the tools necessary to maintain my recovery from alcohol and substance abuse."  John - Orlando, FL  January 2009

“I met Dr. Butkins when I went to a counseling session with my alcoholic husband about 2.5 years ago. He is a highly skilled professional and is very knowledgeable on the disease of alcoholism and its affect upon the families of alcoholics. When we met, I was sick with worry and fear, angry, and unhappy. Living each day in fear of what awful thing would happen next, both my mental and physical health were beginning to suffer. When my husband went off to a rehabilitation center, I continued to see Dr. Butkins. As he challenged my thinking and attitudes and encouraged me to recognize and deal with my feelings, my mind began to open and allow me to look at life situations and the disease of alcoholism in ways that would never have occurred to me on my own. He sent me to Al-Anon where I found other people affected by a loved one’s alcoholism that were working the 12 Steps and willing to help me in my recovery. Today, there is less worry and fear in my life and more serenity. I know that Dr. Butkins’ skill, wisdom, and compassion guided me to this better way of living. I will be forever grateful.” Karen, Lake Mary, Florida


"Dr. Pete probably saved my life 7 months ago when I came to him in October, 2005. He has a great talent in evaluating problems and making you aware of them. He has helped me turn my life around and helped me see things about myself that I have been able to work on; he also helped me help others. It is the best money I have spent in many years. Thank you for being there for me." Richard A. March, 2006

"Dr. Butkins has been treating me since I was in middle school; later on at 19, (he helped me again) I had to see someone I felt comfortable with. He talks to me like a friend, not a doctor. I choose him over any other (counselor) because I look forward to seeing him; he’s just like one of my own friends. He’s very real, but not in your face;he doesn’t sugarcoat, but he’s very understanding and kind. He will help you make progress through anything and leave you feeling better than when you came in."
Jerry K. April 2006

"Dr. Butkins is the best thing that ever happened to me. I would have been dead a long time ago if it were not for him. I drank way too much and wanted to die. He has brought me through a lot; because of him I can handle anything and I love myself today." Janie D. April, 2006

"Dr. Peter Butkins has provided much needed support and direction during emotional turmoil in my life."
Ken H. - Longwood, FL April, 2006

"Dr. Butkins is an amazing guy. He has helped me so very much. When I first came to him I was ready to give up on life. With his help and guidance I pulled myself up. I’m now accepting a full paid scholarship to Stetson. Dr. Butkins saved my life. Thanks for everything." Ann A. - Orlando, FL April, 2006

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Dr. Petes' Words of Wisdom

I am a published author, lecturer, therapist and researcher. In June of 1969, I earned an M.S. in counseling. My Doctoral Studies were at the University of Florida, where I studied Mental Health with a specialization in addiction. I am also a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I have treated thousands of addicts and their families. During my career, I supervised the suicide prevention component of a drug and alcohol agency in Niagara Falls, N.Y., held teaching positions and have conducted a private practice in Orlando since 1981.

The first thoughts of defiance, whether they are of not going to a meeting or not praying or not returning another's call are fought.  The next time the thoughts come there is a lesser battle.  If not "countered" with right action, there is no more fight.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist


We don't have to go back to the old ways.  We have a new Power that far surpasses the old toxic power.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist


First, reach out to those who are experts, those in the 12-step groups and those who are treatment providers.

Secondly, do what they say.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist


No matter what the age, the defenses are the same.  Young adults have to detach from their using friends.  That is the key.  Parents must take a stand with tough love, not rough love or creampuff love.  Do what you say you will do after negotiating the boundary with your spouse.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist


In order to have quality sobriety, sobriety that "sticks", one must have new and engrained information that forms a new belief about the drug.  The new belief is that it caused pain and that recovery causes pleasure.  This can be attained via listening to those who live this new belief.  They can tell you.  They can be found at twelve-step meetings, on tapes, cds, internet meetings...  Look for a 'Gung-Ho' attitude.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist


Put recovery first.  Drop the defiance!  No amount of alcohol, cocaine, pain killer or whatever is worth your life.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist


The bottom is a perception that is personal yet common.  It must be kept alive through constant and vigilant attention.  It must be specific and it must be easily retrievable.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist


Keep your friends and family.  Have control over self.  Rise above the chaos and go where you get your batteries recharged.  Set boundaries and be helpful.  Do not lose yourself in the chaos.  Be friends.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist


Peace and sound judgment are available when the pressure is on if you have developed the habit of prayer and quiet time.  The chaos and poor decision-making can be overcome if you practice being still.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

P.S. check out www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com


Fr. Joe Martin cautioned therapists about being hasty when suggesting this to parents.  His query was to ask the therapist if he or she could kick their child out of the house at 17.  Al-anon helps in amny ways but mainly because they have "been there". 

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

For more info. about Doc Pete, go to www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com


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