When to help an alcoholic/addict
Posted by: drbutkins in powerless, honesty, denial, codependency, alcoholic on
Oct 12, 2008
Do they 'mean business'? By this I mean that you have to see that they wanthelp. Is s/he asking for help? Then you have to decide if you are going to invest in them. Your investment must be well thought out. Not only must you think of the potential damage to you and your family but to the addict/alcoholic. Harm can be done if you enable, help to give them the sense that they can use you when they are desparate and not get honest and seek help. If we play God and attempt to rescue the hopeless we do not give them the opportunity to ask for help and do their part. Do not love anyone to death. Do not ask anyone else to take your place when you get weary and afraid. Go to AlAnon and get help for the one in the moist trouble - you.
Love and peace,
Docpete, the imperfect therapist




