SOBER AND CLEAN LIVING ENVIRONMENT - THE RANCH
Posted by: drbutkins in twelve steps, twelve step program, treatment for drug addiction, recovery, halfway house on
Jun 16, 2008
After over 40 years in this field, I have made up my mind that people who want to get sober and will live with those who are sober in a drug and alcohol free home have a good chance to stay sober. They have a much better chance than those who go to inpatient or decide to live in a halfway house, especially if they decide that they are serious about recovery. We have to do it for ourselves.
I usually ask potential clients if they are addicted. If yes, the next question I ask relates to their motivation. The question asks what they are willing to do. If the answer is anything, I proceed. Usually we do not know what it takes because that answer is in the future but the answer 'anything' is a good start. i usually ask them if they would go inpatient. If the answer is yes, we have some degree of motivation.
The "key" to good quality sobriety/clean time is to keep it going, to be consistent with commitment. Living in a sober house is a real commitment. There are constant reminders and reinforcers for recovery. There is now a chance to stay sober. Surrender to another's way to success is now possible. If I wanted to play 'scratch' golf, I would try to see what Tiger does and follow his path. Imagine if I could live near him and talk to him and get directions? Recovery requires the same thinking and action.
Love and peace,
Docpete, the imperfect therapist

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