"Just say something nicely"

Posted by: drbutkins in interventiondrug usedrug abusedrinkingalcohol on Print PDF

I think it's ok to say you're concerned 'about your drinking (and/or drug use)" as long as it's with a caring tone.  Then let it be.  Give the person time to process your comment.  Don't avoid him or her afterwards.  Be a friend unless he or she tells you to go away.  Try not to convince or persuade or push the person to get sober.  No one likes to be pressured and most people retreat further into their complusion.

Love and peace,

Docpete, the imperfect therapist

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