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"Dr. Butkins played an integral part in my recovery from alcoholism and drug addiction. He provided me with knowledge about the disease of addiction and taught me how to overcome the triggers that would lead me to go out and use or drink. Dr. Butkins is a very knowledgeable, respectable, and professional counselor. He truly cares for his clients and you can tell from the minute you first meet him that he is a man who has genuine concern for the addict and is willing to do what it takes to help you. I am forever grateful to Dr. Butkins for teaching and giving me the tools necessary to maintain my recovery from alcohol and substance abuse." John - Orlando, FL January 2009

“I met Dr. Butkins when I went to a counseling session with my alcoholic husband about 2.5 years ago. He is a highly skilled professional and is very knowledgeable on the disease of alcoholism and its affect upon the families of alcoholics. When we met, I was sick with worry and fear, angry, and unhappy. Living each day in fear of what awful thing would happen next, both my mental and physical health were beginning to suffer. When my husband went off to a rehabilitation center, I continued to see Dr. Butkins. As he challenged my thinking and attitudes and encouraged me to recognize and deal with my feelings, my mind began to open and allow me to look at life situations and the disease of alcoholism in ways that would never have occurred to me on my own. He sent me to Al-Anon where I found other people affected by a loved one’s alcoholism that were working the 12 Steps and willing to help me in my recovery. Today, there is less worry and fear in my life and more serenity. I know that Dr. Butkins’ skill, wisdom, and compassion guided me to this better way of living. I will be forever grateful.” Karen, Lake Mary, Florida

"Dr. Pete probably saved my life 7 months ago when I came to him in October, 2005. He has a great talent in evaluating problems and making you aware of them. He has helped me turn my life around and helped me see things about myself that I have been able to work on; he also helped me help others. It is the best money I have spent in many years. Thank you for being there for me." Richard A. March, 2006

"Dr. Butkins has been treating me since I was in middle school; later on at 19, (he helped me again) I had to see someone I felt comfortable with. He talks to me like a friend, not a doctor. I choose him over any other (counselor) because I look forward to seeing him; he’s just like one of my own friends. He’s very real, but not in your face;he doesn’t sugarcoat, but he’s very understanding and kind. He will help you make progress through anything and leave you feeling better than when you came in."
Jerry K. April 2006

"Dr. Butkins is the best thing that ever happened to me. I would have been dead a long time ago if it were not for him. I drank way too much and wanted to die. He has brought me through a lot; because of him I can handle anything and I love myself today." Janie D. April, 2006

"Dr. Peter Butkins has provided much needed support and direction during emotional turmoil in my life."
Ken H. - Longwood, FL April, 2006

"Dr. Butkins is an amazing guy. He has helped me so very much. When I first came to him I was ready to give up on life. With his help and guidance I pulled myself up. I’m now accepting a full paid scholarship to Stetson. Dr. Butkins saved my life. Thanks for everything." Ann A. - Orlando, FL April, 2006

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Posted by: drbutkins in intervention, alcoholism treatment, addiction recovery on Sep 12, 2011

Go to www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com for more biographical information on Dr. Pete Butkins.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

If you want additional counseling

via internet or telephone or in
person go to :

www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com

facebook: the doc pete (for Doc's videos)

drbutkins@gmail.com (407) 786-1913

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Inpatient vs outpatient drug/alcohol treatment.

Posted by: drbutkins in treatment for drug addiction, treatment for alcoholism, intervention, drug treatment center, drug addiction treatment, drug addiction rehab, drug addiction recovery, drug addiction programs, alcoholism treatment, addiction recovery on Aug 27, 2011

Inpatient treatment should be the first choice when there is a need to detox, prevent continued relapses, escape a toxic environment and/or work through relapse triggers that emerge constantly and create enormous stress that makes it difficult to stay sober.

The ideal choice is to use NARN, National Addiction Recovery Network to choose a Center. NARN was established in 2011 by this author and his business partner for the Orlando area and is dedicated to working with integrated treatment facilities to include outpatient, inpatient and transitional living services. NARN insists on quality treatment at an affordable price. With its three part delivery of business services: marketing, billing and information management, we insure integration of services so that no addict or alcoholic or their families get 'lost in the transitions from service to service', thus insuring continuity of care.

At present, we are focusing on Caring People Recovery Center in Bowling Green, Florida and My Freedom Quest, Inc. as our outpatient and inpatient connection in the Central Florida area. Call Dr. Butkins for either of these services at (407) 786-1913.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

If you want additional counseling

via internet or telephone or in
person go to:

www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com

facebook: the doc pete (for Doc's videos)

drbutkins@gmail.com (407) 786-1913

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Drug and Alcohol intervention.

Posted by: drbutkins in intervention, alcoholism treatment, addiction recovery on Aug 15, 2011

Say, "I love you".

Say, "You're drinking (and/or drug abuse) hurts me a lot". Give a brief example.

Say, "I have to divorce myself from you unless you go to treatment". (You have to decide on your own consequence and limit.)

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com

P.S. Go to you tube and see Doc's videos (the doc pete).

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Drug/Alcohol Interventions.

Posted by: drbutkins in intervention, denial, alcoholism treatment, addiction recovery on Aug 11, 2011

The intervention may be performed by a loved one in a brief and effective manner instead of a planned intervention with several significant people. Sometimes this is an effective talk that leads to breaking denial and, thus, acceptance of the problem.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com.

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Learning vs Protection.

Posted by: drbutkins in self actualization, intervention, humility, alcoholism treatment, addiction recovery on Jul 08, 2011

Good recovery entails giving and receiving feedback.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

If you are interested in additional counseling by email or
telephone log onto www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com.

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Your 'bottom' is a great asset.

Posted by: drbutkins in sobriety, intervention, hope, honesty, alcoholism treatment, addiction recovery, 12 step program on Jun 12, 2011

I think that, when we hit bottom, we are truly non-threatening, non-judmental and receptive to all the opportunities that God gives us. We are now asking Him for help, are close to him, perhaps closer than ever, and can be conduits for others' recovery. It is now that we are heard by those who hear little. Ask me how I know.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

If you are interested in additional counseling by email or telephone

log onto http://www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com/

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Addictive Family Roles and dynamics.

Posted by: drbutkins in intervention, family recovery, codependency, addiction recovery on Jan 14, 2011

In the addictive family, everyone rallies around a cause. The cause is to help the family stay in denial. The threat of addiction is that it will destroy all that is good. The family, at some level, knows this. If the alcoholic/addict system is 'let out of the bag', all hell will break loose. The addict will get mad, divorce may be inevitable, guilt over who caused it will emerge, and so on. The fear is that the family will dissolve or not dissolve. No one knows for sure which is worse.

The family protects itself by calling addiction something else, like stress or job pressure, or exaggeration... The kids become lost children, masking feelings of inadequacy and fear. One becomes a scapegoat, acting out in a variety of ways, thus taking the focus off of the addict. Another becomes the hero, taking on family responsibility and providing normalcy and even honor to the family, even when he or she is being pressured to solve problems, fix them when only God can fix them. The comedian or mascot lends a light-hearted tone to the problem. The spouse is usually the chief enabler, making excuses and guilt-tripping others into caring for the addict, co-signing his or her aberrant behavior. Finally, the addict/alcoholic is the abuser who has inherited a genetic pre-disposition for addiction and doesn't know what hit him (her) until there's a bottom. Then he or she is responsible to get help.

Family members can do an intervention but the enablers have to learn and change. This family method is "new" and not all of the members will cooperate. However, if one family member can get healthy, out of denial, attend AlAnon or NarAnon or get into treatment, the family system changes. When ONE person in the family knows the "Emperor wears no clothes", the addiction is exposed. This person needs support. To go it alone when faced with addiction can lead to ruination. Frequent contact with those undergoing the same problem is vital to mental health. Fighting this addiction alone leads to crazymaking. The healthiest family members get help.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

P.S. If you want online or telephone counseling goto www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com. We now take mastercard, visa, discover and all other cards.

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Say a prayer for B.

Posted by: drbutkins in intervention, addiction recovery on Jan 04, 2011

Say a prayer for a friend who being intervened on tonight.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

If you are interested in additional counseling by email or telephone

log onto http://www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com/

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Detaching with love. Easier said than done.

Posted by: drbutkins in intervention, humility, drug addiction treatment, codependency, addiction recovery on Aug 04, 2010

Fr. Joe Martin cautioned therapists about being hasty when suggesting this to parents. His query was to ask the therapist if he or she could kick their child out of the house at 17. Al-anon helps in amny ways but mainly because they have "been there".

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

For more info. about Doc Pete, go to www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com

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Adolescent addiction.

Posted by: drbutkins in intervention, humility, family recovery, codependency, addiction recovery on May 07, 2010

The family is the most influential resource the child has. The family must become functional, i.e., reality-based regarding the addiction, in order to intervene effectively. This encompasses a mindset based on accurate information about the problem/disease and a willingness to be coached by an expert.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

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