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"Dr. Butkins played an integral part in my recovery from alcoholism and drug addiction. He provided me with knowledge about the disease of addiction and taught me how to overcome the triggers that would lead me to go out and use or drink. Dr. Butkins is a very knowledgeable, respectable, and professional counselor. He truly cares for his clients and you can tell from the minute you first meet him that he is a man who has genuine concern for the addict and is willing to do what it takes to help you. I am forever grateful to Dr. Butkins for teaching and giving me the tools necessary to maintain my recovery from alcohol and substance abuse." John - Orlando, FL January 2009

“I met Dr. Butkins when I went to a counseling session with my alcoholic husband about 2.5 years ago. He is a highly skilled professional and is very knowledgeable on the disease of alcoholism and its affect upon the families of alcoholics. When we met, I was sick with worry and fear, angry, and unhappy. Living each day in fear of what awful thing would happen next, both my mental and physical health were beginning to suffer. When my husband went off to a rehabilitation center, I continued to see Dr. Butkins. As he challenged my thinking and attitudes and encouraged me to recognize and deal with my feelings, my mind began to open and allow me to look at life situations and the disease of alcoholism in ways that would never have occurred to me on my own. He sent me to Al-Anon where I found other people affected by a loved one’s alcoholism that were working the 12 Steps and willing to help me in my recovery. Today, there is less worry and fear in my life and more serenity. I know that Dr. Butkins’ skill, wisdom, and compassion guided me to this better way of living. I will be forever grateful.” Karen, Lake Mary, Florida

"Dr. Pete probably saved my life 7 months ago when I came to him in October, 2005. He has a great talent in evaluating problems and making you aware of them. He has helped me turn my life around and helped me see things about myself that I have been able to work on; he also helped me help others. It is the best money I have spent in many years. Thank you for being there for me." Richard A. March, 2006

"Dr. Butkins has been treating me since I was in middle school; later on at 19, (he helped me again) I had to see someone I felt comfortable with. He talks to me like a friend, not a doctor. I choose him over any other (counselor) because I look forward to seeing him; he’s just like one of my own friends. He’s very real, but not in your face;he doesn’t sugarcoat, but he’s very understanding and kind. He will help you make progress through anything and leave you feeling better than when you came in."
Jerry K. April 2006

"Dr. Butkins is the best thing that ever happened to me. I would have been dead a long time ago if it were not for him. I drank way too much and wanted to die. He has brought me through a lot; because of him I can handle anything and I love myself today." Janie D. April, 2006

"Dr. Peter Butkins has provided much needed support and direction during emotional turmoil in my life."
Ken H. - Longwood, FL April, 2006

"Dr. Butkins is an amazing guy. He has helped me so very much. When I first came to him I was ready to give up on life. With his help and guidance I pulled myself up. I’m now accepting a full paid scholarship to Stetson. Dr. Butkins saved my life. Thanks for everything." Ann A. - Orlando, FL April, 2006

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Josh Hamilton relapse - Drug and Alcohol Treatment.

Posted by: drbutkins in honesty, higher power, celebrity recovery, alcoholism treatment, addiction recovery on Feb 03, 2012

Josh Hamilton remarked that he thought he had his disease beat. This may indicate why he relapsed. His thinking may have been skewed in the sense that he thought he had to overcome the problem as many people believe. Accurate information is found at twelve-step meetings where we learn that we don't beat the disease. We can't beat the game. We surrender to God and He beats the game, i.e., takes away the cravings and helps us to become humble enough to stop trying to win and surrender to a Power that helps us abstain. We can play God all that we want but we can't beat addiction by fighting it. We need ongoing help. This is reality.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete

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Codependency and "Matching" - Drug and Alcohol Treatment.

Posted by: drbutkins in honesty, family recovery, codependency on Dec 11, 2011

Most codependent people insist that others think, feel and act the way they do. Otherwise, the frozen feelings emerge and are displaced on the 'uncooperative victim'. To avoid this, be confident and explain that you do not allow anyone to yell at you or lay guilt trips... It isn't difficult as, once you do this once or twice, it becomes more ingrained and you can even respon in a casual manner and set the boundary.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete

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Codependency - Fix yourself!

Posted by: drbutkins in honesty, family recovery, codependency on Dec 07, 2011

Knowing how you feel and think allows you to process your life. Otherwise, you have to become an expert on another's. This is the main reason for divorce: inability to resolve your part of the conflict.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete

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Family Recovery.

Posted by: drbutkins in honesty, family recovery, codependency, addiction recovery on Nov 28, 2011

Believe it or not, the entire family has been affected. This disease perpetuates itself through generations because we do not talk about it. It is usually a shame-based secret. Let's stop it in this generation.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

If you want additional counseling

via internet or telephone or in
person go to :

www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com

www.facebook.com/PeterAButkins

www.You Tube.com/thedocpete

drbutkins@gmail.com (407) 786-1913

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Addiction and Control - drug and alcohol treatment.

Posted by: drbutkins in parenting a teen drug addict, parenting a teen alcoholic, humility, honesty, family recovery, codependency, alcoholism treatment, addiction recovery on Nov 13, 2011

Surrender is the character asset that leads to recovery. The addict/alcoholic and the family need to surrender to those who know what to do and can lead them through the maze of addiction to the stability and eventual joy of recovery.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete

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YouTube.com/thedocpete

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Is addiction ruining sports?

Posted by: drbutkins in humble, honesty, drugs, denial, codependency, cocaine addiction, alcoholism treatment, addiction recovery on Nov 11, 2011

The sound of enabling has come to sports over the past twenty years or so. Pot, steroids, alcohol, cocaine - they're all prevalent in most sports. Just read the newspapers, magazines, internet and listen to the news. It's a daily occurence for a sports figure to be arrested for a problem related to drug and/or alcohol abuse. And these are the ones who make it in spite of continued use. The ones who don't make it due to drug and/or alcohol use are seldom mentioned because they are not 'today's news'. However, their lives are ruined because their coaches, atheletic directors did not say anything, usually for personal reasons. Injuries occur more often, coaches and managers, fans, society... cover it up for one reason or another.

Let's bring back the humbler, more fan-oriented event instead of the arrogant, more self-absorbed game that is based on individual vanity and proccupation with self. Let's reinforce and support the team player who still exists today. Let's get behind the athelete and their coaches who still care about others and 'higher levels' of sports and life.

The addict is sick not bad whether he is on skid row or front row. We need to help the person, not by turning the other way and ignoring the signs and symptoms but by caring enough to hold the person accountable. Just like we need to hold our children as responsible for their actions, we need to stop harming our boys by helping them believe that they are better than others.

Whoever one protects, one weakens.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete

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Ongoing Growth - drug and alcohol treatment.

Posted by: drbutkins in honesty, family recovery, drug addiction treatment, drug addiction recovery, denial, alcoholism treatment, alcohol recovery, addiction recovery on Nov 03, 2011

Without meetings and steps and sponsoring, I would not be able to stay honest. Under great perceived or real stress, my ability to be honest is poor. When I pray or sit in a meeting for five minutes, I get honest through a Higher Power and can see my part in the problem.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

If you want additional counseling

via internet or telephone or in
person go to :

www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com

facebook: allabout addictions

You Tube (for Doc's videos) - the doc pete

drbutkins@gmail.com (407) 786-1913

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Marijuana and.or cigarettes - ? caused the cancer?

Posted by: drbutkins in marijuana, honesty, addiction recovery on Oct 31, 2011

Many addicts rationalize that cigarettes cause lung damage... and justify pot use this way. The truth is that they are both lethal.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

If you want additional counseling

via internet or telephone or in
person go to :

www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com

facebook: allabout addictions

You Tube (for Doc's videos) - the doc pete

drbutkins@gmail.com (407) 786-1913

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Relapse remorse - drug and alcohol treatment.

Posted by: drbutkins in hope, honesty, alcoholism disease, alcohol recovery, addiction recovery on Oct 07, 2011

Remember that you did nor choose this disease and that relapse is a characteristic of the disease. Learn from the relapse and realize that most all addicts/alcoholics relapse at least once. However, make this the last one. First, let go of the debilitating guilt and learn what you need to do better.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

If you want additional counseling

via internet or telephone or in
person go to :

www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com

facebook: allabout addictions

You Tube (for Doc's videos) - the doc pete

drbutkins@gmail.com (407) 786-1913

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Your 'bottom' is a great asset.

Posted by: drbutkins in sobriety, intervention, hope, honesty, alcoholism treatment, addiction recovery, 12 step program on Jun 12, 2011

I think that, when we hit bottom, we are truly non-threatening, non-judmental and receptive to all the opportunities that God gives us. We are now asking Him for help, are close to him, perhaps closer than ever, and can be conduits for others' recovery. It is now that we are heard by those who hear little. Ask me how I know.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

If you are interested in additional counseling by email or telephone

log onto http://www.docpetetheimperfecttherapist.com/

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