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"Dr. Butkins played an integral part in my recovery from alcoholism and drug addiction. He provided me with knowledge about the disease of addiction and taught me how to overcome the triggers that would lead me to go out and use or drink. Dr. Butkins is a very knowledgeable, respectable, and professional counselor. He truly cares for his clients and you can tell from the minute you first meet him that he is a man who has genuine concern for the addict and is willing to do what it takes to help you. I am forever grateful to Dr. Butkins for teaching and giving me the tools necessary to maintain my recovery from alcohol and substance abuse." John - Orlando, FL January 2009
“I met Dr. Butkins when I went to a counseling session with my alcoholic husband about 2.5 years ago. He is a highly skilled professional and is very knowledgeable on the disease of alcoholism and its affect upon the families of alcoholics. When we met, I was sick with worry and fear, angry, and unhappy. Living each day in fear of what awful thing would happen next, both my mental and physical health were beginning to suffer. When my husband went off to a rehabilitation center, I continued to see Dr. Butkins. As he challenged my thinking and attitudes and encouraged me to recognize and deal with my feelings, my mind began to open and allow me to look at life situations and the disease of alcoholism in ways that would never have occurred to me on my own. He sent me to Al-Anon where I found other people affected by a loved one’s alcoholism that were working the 12 Steps and willing to help me in my recovery. Today, there is less worry and fear in my life and more serenity. I know that Dr. Butkins’ skill, wisdom, and compassion guided me to this better way of living. I will be forever grateful.”Karen, Lake Mary, Florida
"Dr. Pete probably saved my life 7 months ago when I came to him in October, 2005. He has a great talent in evaluating problems and making you aware of them. He has helped me turn my life around and helped me see things about myself that I have been able to work on; he also helped me help others. It is the best money I have spent in many years. Thank you for being there for me." Richard A. March, 2006 "Dr. Butkins has been treating me since I was in middle school; later on at 19, (he helped me again) I had to see someone I felt comfortable with. He talks to me like a friend, not a doctor. I choose him over any other (counselor) because I look forward to seeing him; he’s just like one of my own friends. He’s very real, but not in your face;he doesn’t sugarcoat, but he’s very understanding and kind. He will help you make progress through anything and leave you feeling better than when you came in." Jerry K. April 2006 "Dr. Butkins is the best thing that ever happened to me. I would have been dead a long time ago if it were not for him. I drank way too much and wanted to die. He has brought me through a lot; because of him I can handle anything and I love myself today." Janie D. April, 2006
"Dr. Peter Butkins has provided much needed support and direction during emotional turmoil in my life." Ken H. - Longwood, FL April, 2006
"Dr. Butkins is an amazing guy. He has helped me so very much. When I first came to him I was ready to give up on life. With his help and guidance I pulled myself up. I’m now accepting a full paid scholarship to Stetson. Dr. Butkins saved my life. Thanks for everything." Ann A. - Orlando, FL April, 2006
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Short term goal attainment can let you know you can accomplish important tasks in recovery. These add up to time in recovery and a feeling that you are on the right path.
The family has to surrender, break denial, look at control issues and become humble, stop all alcohol use in the home and outside as regards their family, set boundaries, go to AlAnon or NarAnon, get a sponsor... The addict has to do these things also. Otherwise, the family stays stuck with the disease. Let's break this in this generation. Follow directions and stop directing.
Without meetings and steps and sponsoring, I would not be able to stay honest. Under great perceived or real stress, my ability to be honest is poor. When I pray or sit in a meeting for five minutes, I get honest through a Higher Power and can see my part in the problem.
What most people don't know about addiction is the fact that there are genetic pre-dispositions for addictions in about one of ten persons. This means that some people can smoke pot recreationally but addicts can't do so safely due to physiology. Addicts will become addicted. They can't stop on their own and they will create much harm to self and others. Normal people will use normally, i.e., on a holiday or 3-4 times a year. Abusers will use often to self-medicate but will stop when there is a problem. Addicts will not stop so readily and will endure much pain and loss and perhaps never quit or want to.
People who tout pot use do not understand that it can cancer, deplete the immune sysyem, affect intellectual functioning, cause amotivation and other damage for the self and family. Addicts, because of the duration and frequency of use, are a target for these symptoms. I dread seeing a parent addicted to pot because I know there are kids who are not getting a fair shot at life. Daddy is loaded and not available on many levels.
It is easy to support pot if you use it once a year. However, be informed. Don't support a product if you do not understand the harm done by your support. You are helping addicts to build their denial system because of your ignorance and self-serving 'stand' on a subject that is fairly complex and better left for discussion by recovering addicts and addictionologists.
Bill Bob Thornton spoke of his lack of opinion on politics last week as he was not that informed. I think he is informed, intelligent and well-spoken. I also think he's making the same point that I am. I admire his humble and balenced message. He see the potential harm that can be done by giving his opinion. As a well like and admired celebrity, he refuses to abuse his power of attraction and chooses to be honest and 'right-sized'. The same is true of addiction. If you haven't been there and recovered or studied the science of addiction, don't lecture or expound on its benign nature. People are hearing you and making decisions on your opinions.
Inpatient treatment should be the first choice when there is a need to detox, prevent continued relapses, escape a toxic environment and/or work through relapse triggers that emerge constantly and create enormous stress that makes it difficult to stay sober.
The ideal choice is to use NARN, National Addiction Recovery Network to choose a Center. NARN was established in 2011 by this author and his business partner for the Orlando area and is dedicated to working with integrated treatment facilities to include outpatient, inpatient and transitional living services. NARN insists on quality treatment at an affordable price. With its three part delivery of business services: marketing, billing and information management, we insure integration of services so that no addict or alcoholic or their families get 'lost in the transitions from service to service', thus insuring continuity of care.
At present, we are focusing on Caring People Recovery Center in Bowling Green, Florida and My Freedom Quest, Inc. as our outpatient and inpatient connection in the Central Florida area. Call Dr. Butkins for either of these services at (407) 786-1913.
Alcohol cravings that are twenty times more powerful than morphine cravings Ohlms,1982) can leave after a spiritual conversion and exposure to spiritual principals by people who have had this experience. Do not ask me how this works. I don't know. However, I do know that it works. It can begin with prayer and asking for help. In fact, I think this is how it usually works.