READ THESE PERSONAL TESTIMONIES FROM DR. BUTKINS' CLIENTS
"Dr. Butkins played an integral part in my recovery from alcoholism and drug addiction. He provided me with knowledge about the disease of addiction and taught me how to overcome the triggers that would lead me to go out and use or drink. Dr. Butkins is a very knowledgeable, respectable, and professional counselor. He truly cares for his clients and you can tell from the minute you first meet him that he is a man who has genuine concern for the addict and is willing to do what it takes to help you. I am forever grateful to Dr. Butkins for teaching and giving me the tools necessary to maintain my recovery from alcohol and substance abuse." John - Orlando, FL January 2009
“I met Dr. Butkins when I went to a counseling session with my alcoholic husband about 2.5 years ago. He is a highly skilled professional and is very knowledgeable on the disease of alcoholism and its affect upon the families of alcoholics. When we met, I was sick with worry and fear, angry, and unhappy. Living each day in fear of what awful thing would happen next, both my mental and physical health were beginning to suffer. When my husband went off to a rehabilitation center, I continued to see Dr. Butkins. As he challenged my thinking and attitudes and encouraged me to recognize and deal with my feelings, my mind began to open and allow me to look at life situations and the disease of alcoholism in ways that would never have occurred to me on my own. He sent me to Al-Anon where I found other people affected by a loved one’s alcoholism that were working the 12 Steps and willing to help me in my recovery. Today, there is less worry and fear in my life and more serenity. I know that Dr. Butkins’ skill, wisdom, and compassion guided me to this better way of living. I will be forever grateful.”Karen, Lake Mary, Florida
"Dr. Pete probably saved my life 7 months ago when I came to him in October, 2005. He has a great talent in evaluating problems and making you aware of them. He has helped me turn my life around and helped me see things about myself that I have been able to work on; he also helped me help others. It is the best money I have spent in many years. Thank you for being there for me." Richard A. March, 2006 "Dr. Butkins has been treating me since I was in middle school; later on at 19, (he helped me again) I had to see someone I felt comfortable with. He talks to me like a friend, not a doctor. I choose him over any other (counselor) because I look forward to seeing him; he’s just like one of my own friends. He’s very real, but not in your face;he doesn’t sugarcoat, but he’s very understanding and kind. He will help you make progress through anything and leave you feeling better than when you came in." Jerry K. April 2006 "Dr. Butkins is the best thing that ever happened to me. I would have been dead a long time ago if it were not for him. I drank way too much and wanted to die. He has brought me through a lot; because of him I can handle anything and I love myself today." Janie D. April, 2006
"Dr. Peter Butkins has provided much needed support and direction during emotional turmoil in my life." Ken H. - Longwood, FL April, 2006
"Dr. Butkins is an amazing guy. He has helped me so very much. When I first came to him I was ready to give up on life. With his help and guidance I pulled myself up. I’m now accepting a full paid scholarship to Stetson. Dr. Butkins saved my life. Thanks for everything." Ann A. - Orlando, FL April, 2006
Take charge of your home. Get your child to treatment the right way. Dr. Butkins explains how to progress through the steps of helping your child to get sober and clean. Go to You Tube and search for the doc pete. There are seven videos on each step and others on treatment for drug and alcohol abuse/addiction.
When your child tries to convice you that everything is fine now, keep in mind that he may say this in any situation. He may say this if he is using or he may say this if he is fine. If he's using, he may really think that it's fine. Err on the side of caution. See for yourself and be cautious always. Avoid the trap of trying to 'please your child'. This is true love.
Dry drunk synedrome is when you blame another instantaneously before examining the situation. This defense preceeds thinking logically or just thinking at all. Next comes negative thinking and overconfidence. Resentments are not processed and stresses are not managed well.
The solution is an honest appraisal of one's state of mind and spirit, followed by right action to remedy the problem. Sometimes this involves making amends or seeing your part in the problem. Other times, it involves return to prayer. If you have a spiritual advisor and a program, this dilemma is not very difficult to arrest.
How about we wake up the country and make people aware of the pandemic spread of drugs and abuse of alcohol that is hampering good thought and good judgment. Each day a myriad of decisions are made that are based upon alcoholic or drug-affected thinking. These mindsets are prevalent in our schools, sports, businesses, educational centers, politics and so on and on.
Sometimes these decisions are brought to our attention but oftentimes not. No one wants these problems in their 'arena' so they are covered up. Bosses drink with their employees and thus it is covered up. Atheletes make billions for their team owners so it is difficult for the owners to enforce consequences. Schools don't want the exposure because they would lose support...
The result: A drug-affected society. Let's get them help!
Love and Peace,
Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist
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Can you connect the dots? Is the problem you are having connected to your drinking and/or drugging? Would this have happened if you were sober and clean? Be honest!