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One of the best and most beneficial gifts we can give ourselves in early sobriety is to learn and stop teaching, analyzing and thinking about the cause of our problem.  This may help later on but at the beginning of recovery, the first one to three years, we must act.  Take the actions that successful people have.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist

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After diagnosing addiction (dependence) and knowing that your child wants help, find others who have successfully stopped their addiction.  They go to Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous.  You can go to Alanon to heal.

Love and Peace,

Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist


Sticking your head in the sand will only make the problem worse as you'll  convey the message that you really are not going to do anything to upset the applecart.  Your teen will only use more.  You'll be making it easier for him/her to use.

The solution is to parent from a united and confident marriage or team.  It is difficult for anyone to overcome the teaching coming from a solid base.  I don't know many children who have that much power in a family.  If one does, it is easily regained if two parents form a strong union and agree on the course of action.  This is the heart of the solution.

Next, efforts must be made to get the help from those who have "been there".  This is the twelve step path.  At this point, the mature direction is to let your child heal and healing yourself by your twelve step involvement.  Do what they do and you'll be successful.  An addictions therapist can be invaluable as an educator and coach.

Love and peace,

Docpete


The "key", in my opinion, is to surrender to a way of life that includes God and other people.  Our ideas must be put aside and new ideas must be internalized and acted upon.  The twelve-step movement is one of the greatest miracles of the twentieth century.  It is liberal and promotes freedom with nonrestrictive directions, suggestions on how to convert one's life to success.  It works every time, in my opinion.  It works every time if the person desirous of recovery follows the path laid down for him or her exactly as advised.

Yet, in the twelve-step fellowship, I have seen much death and destruction from those who attend the meetings and will not follow the directions.  they tend to sabotage their chance to get sober and clean.  At times, I wonder if their genetic poolings for addiction are incredibly high or they have bad luck...  Ihave come tobelieve/ think that these are those who simply will not surrender their way of doing things and conform.

In the sixties, we prided ourselves on being nonconformists.  This had to change when my life was on the line.  Then it was time to use the program to survive and get rid of the ideas and actions that were killing me.  Then I had to be grateful for the opportunity.  I want to leave here sober.  I never want my wonderful daughter to see or hear about me being drunk or high.  It's a great opportunity to be sober and clean.  All I have to do is follow the path, especially when i don't want to do so.

Love and peace, Docpete, the imperfect therapist


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