"What if."
Posted by: drbutkins in intervention, codependency, alcoholism treatment on
Apr 12, 2010
To me, the most difficult part of an intervention is to determine your boundaries and stick to them. For example, you deserve to live without the htreat of an addict. Your boundary may be that there is not going to be an drinking or drug use in your home. Because the addict is used to not having consequences, this can be life-changing for both you and him. In fact, he or she is used tohaving others pay for them. The consequences are so that the addict can feel the repercussions of using and, therefore, feel the losses and become motivated by the consequences. ' What ifs' are the boundaries or consequences you state and enforce in order for you to live successfully.
Love and Peace,
Doc Pete, the imperfect therapist




