Set your boundaries.

Posted by: drbutkins in interventionhumilityhonestyaddiction recoveryaddiction on Print PDF

Don't expect the addict to 'open up' when you remain rigid.  Determine what you will put up with and set boundaries.  What does it take for you to stop taking care of and attempting to cure someone who does not want help?  Decide to care for yourself before you become so stressed that you are addicted to helping him or her.  Listen to your advice for him or her and apply it to yourself.  Take a stand assertively before you do it aggressively.  Aggression does not work for you or him/her.  More to come.

Love and peace,

Docpete, the imperfect therapist


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